Women Open Up About How A First Born Affects A Marriage
James Kayindi, May 22, 2017
The euphoria from the youth years and the wedding become only a beautiful memory for us women after we get married. Adult’s life comes so fast that partying and having fun with friends start staying in the background. We have no time for such things while we are doing the house work and taking care of the children.
But do we have to become housewives? Of course NOT! Even after the age of 25, or why not 35, a woman needs to have fun. Everybody needs a break and a little fun. Here is what you could do to make your life more exciting – and here are our advices:
Prepare your husband with the news that you are planning to throw a small party in your house and if you have a villa somewhere in the environs, it is even better! Ask him to go out with the boys or at least to give you a single night to have fun.
On the second place, you should find someone who could take care of your children. And here is an appropriate moment for you to leave them in the hands of their loving grandmothers. Of course, you don’t have to give them any explanations, just tell them that you need to have a little break.
After you took care of your husband and your children, comes the easiest part – inviting the guests to your party. Of course, in order to do that, you just need to call your girlfriends, colleagues and so on. You could face some problems like “what about my husband… my children…” In that case, you need to show some skills of an orator and convince them that they need a break and that they deserve to have a little fun… or just think of a warrantable reason which will make them go to your party.
The next step is preparing the party. You could ask for some help from your friends or why not your husband. It’s up to you what drinks, food, salads and appetizers you will buy.
On the party’s day, you need to make sure that you look astonishing by wearing a new dress or skirt. The party could last until the morning, but a neighbor might ruin it all by calling the police, if you are too loud. So the best option is to go to a disco when it gets late if you would like to avoid such unpleasant situations.